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Virtual Dating Etiquette: Do's and Don'ts
December 28, 2025 · 3 min read
Video dating has its own unwritten rules. Master these basics to make every virtual date a success.
The Do's
Do be on time
Log in 5 minutes early to sort out any tech issues.
Do maintain eye contact
Look at your camera when speaking to simulate eye contact.
Do speak clearly
Enunciate and pace yourself—audio can be tricky on video calls.
Do show enthusiasm
Nod, smile, and react. Energy translates well on camera.
Do ask follow-up questions
Show genuine interest in what the other person shares.
The Don'ts
Don't multitask
Close other apps and give your date your full attention.
Don't interrupt
Video calls have slight delays—pause before responding.
Don't dominate the conversation
Aim for a balanced exchange where both people share equally.
Don't get too personal too fast
Save deep topics for when you've built more rapport.
Don't be negative
Avoid complaining about exes, work, or dating in general.
Remember: the goal is to see if there's a spark. Keep it light, be respectful, and most importantly—have fun!